Dialogue “Modern Attitude to Love and Marriage” Essay

* Hi, Lucy Do you know Johnny and I are getting married?* Oh, great I remember its about date. You pay been spiritedness together forfor * For 6 years.* Yes, for 6 years already. Im so happy for you, Sarah* And Im so happy for myself also* And are you passage to have a gorgeous man and wife ceremony?* No, Johnny and I are going to register our marriage at the Registry Office. No wedding ceremony, no veil and no bridesmaids.* I got it. But how could you force Johnny to marry you? I know he is supporter of free whop. * Yes, but as youve said before we have been reenforcement for 6 years already. He is used to my wishes and Im used to his habits. And after all he has calm down. * It means that hes not such philanderer as before, isnt he? * Im not sure enough but I hope.* Well, he is from the 90s coevals. And I think its the reason for all problems. * But the same I can say about you and about me. We belong to this coevals too. * Yes, but you know that men are to a greater extent light-minded in relations than women. Moreover, they are more inclined to be unfaithful. And talking about the 90s generationwell, I reckon its the most immoral and dissolute generation. * Partly youre right. Fidelity means nothing nowadays. But at the same time you have more freedom. For example, sex doesnt necessarily involve marriage. * You do see it, its better for men again. You know the majority of men dupet need the wedlock at all they are completely content to be free and to have sex with anybody. But women are more serious in relations, thats why all of them still want to be married by thirty years.* Yes, youre right of course. But at least there were some advantages as a result of the sexual revolution. For example you can have sex before marriage I think its a great freedom for everybody. * Well, its indisputable. As for me, so Im quite old-fashioned person. You know I want absolute fealty in my relationship. Its very important for me when my partner and I can t alk with each other, and its even insulting when my boyfriend fools around with anybody else. * I see. But I dont share your point of view. Im sure its necessarily to give some freedom to your husband. You pursuit yourpartner by resileing his freedom so strictly. Loving a person means allowing him to be himself.* Maybe youre right. In any possibility I consider that a steady relationship is based on trust, understanding and faithfulness. * Well, I wont make you change your mind. But if you, shadowy of your husband unfaithfulness, keep complaining, weeping and nagging, I can assure you your spouse will commit adultery with more probability. * Im with you here. Now I want to ask you about your future life with Johnnie. Have you decided already where you would live? * Dont you know that he has his own flat tire?* Really? Its awesome* Yes, he is a very independent, self-made man. Im so proud of him * Yes, young people stand on their two feet earlier today than they did in the past. I believe thats great. * Thats where youre right I reckon that young people should think about marriage only after they have become independent of their parents. * As for women, so Im sure they have to complete their education, embodiment labor force skills and develop career interests before getting married. * Too true. Actually its normal for the modern world, especially for urbanized countries that people tabularize marriage in order to build a career and make a fortune.* Unfortunately, there is the other side of the coin. These career interests may, in turn, motivate women to limit family size. Thats why we have such a low birth rate in all developed countries. * Oh, I agree entirely. Its too bad. Oh, I cant help worrying about our living together * Calm down and dont talk nonsense. You have been living for 6 years and now youre worrying * Yes, but it wasnt a wedlock, but only a cohabitation. * Dont worry I think people should get know each other well before getting married. And I believe your marriage will be winning and strong. * So do I. But anyway Im afraid that all these mere formalities and papers will spoil our relations.* If you really love each other then there is nothing to worry about. Sarah, when are you going to have a baby? Have you discussed already this question with Johnnie? * Oh, Im so happy that I have Johnnie He is just an ideal man. Besides, he adores kids. He wants to have a big family. Can you remember he wants to have four children, two girls and two boys * And what about you? You know childbearing spoils afigure. Do you want to put on weight and have cellulite?* Oh, I think its very silly to think about such trifles of life. You have only one life and Im sure you should devote your life to children. Ive had enough time for living it up. Now Im almost 27 and I want to give all my love to my children and my husband. * I see. Its such a wise decision. But as for me, so I wouldnt want to have so umteen kids. It will be enough to have only two children. But also Id like to adopt an orphan child. * Really? Its very brave of you.* Yes, I really want to love and raise a child, which was deprived of motherly love. And whats your parents attitude to your forthcoming marriage. * You know my florists chrysanthemum considers immoral to live with the man under the same roof if hes not your husband. And my father is the opponent of the common-law marriage. * So they must be really delighted with this news.